Bad Days * how ya doing? being honest with yourself, here is my honesty

Due to reasons unknown I am being denied access with my sister and my niece and sometimes it gets upsetting, so I am posting a little later than usual.
In a horrific experience in a car my sister was very angry with me because I had helped her and supported her and been a good auntie to her daughter. Yes she was angry her most used repartee was “you think your so perfect” which she said many times. And we were heading to a birthday party of our mother’s that my sister had decided to not take her daughter to, I know why, she knows why and our mother knows why but I am not allowed legally to say.

The anger was directed towards me while she was driving us to our mother’s birthday party and she was so angry leaning towards me with ferociousness and swerving all over the place. After a sign that said ‘Dewsbury’ on our way to the venue in Morley the car was heading direct towards a long line of parked cars she was still raging at me with nonsense and I told her “Look where you are going!!” And she told me “Don’t tell me how to drive!” We were facing death as she said “your always thinking your so perfect” so I had to tap her on the arm and point towards the parked cars and say “LOOK WHERE YOU’RE GOING!!” And she looked away from me and swerved away from the cars she then said “You hit me, you’re violent” and I just was relieved that we survived that near death crash due to her unqualified anger towards me.

One of the things she was angry about was when she and I and my niece were on a plane and Gracie was crying before takeoff and just after. I said to my sister let’s pretend it’s a game and say “wheeeeee!!” on the way down and see if that helps. We did and it did help but that was offensive to my sister, so much time after, I don’t understand how being a good sister and a good auntie is somehow a bad thing. It’s bizarre.